Unique Services for Those Exploring BDSM

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+ Coaching Helps You To:

• Identify obstacles that keep getting in the way.
• Dissolve emotional barriers
• Assist In Finding Motivation - this often looks different for those interested in BDSM
• Pinpointing any resistance to change.
• Setting Goals and breaking them down into actionable steps
• Being held accountable and being cared for on your journey
• Learn BDSM skills along the way.

+ Examples Of Goals For Life Coaching:

• Weight management
• Health management
  • Encouragement to schedule appointments, organize paperwork for appointments, support for after attending appointments. Assistance finding the right fields for your issues.
• Exercise participation monitoring
• Exercise prescription and adherence
• Helping a Dominant manage a new (or old) submissive
• Gaining confidence through exercises as a Dominant
• Emotional exercises and structure for a new submissive to improve quality of life
• Emotional assistance through life transitions - such as job change or breakup/divorce.

+ Detailed Life Coaching Example:

Sasha is a strong independent woman with submissive tendencies and a variety of kink interests. She thrives with structure but can’t seem to stick with her weight loss goals despite good knowledge of nutrition. Her dominant tried to control her habits but she would rebel against him and this lead to conflict, so she is sought help outside of her D/s relationship. She has the most difficulty remembering to drink water in the morning, eating lunch on time when she is busy at work, and managing emotional eating triggers when she is exhausted in the evening. Her coaching program included a specially timed check in at lunch that she was required to respond to, to help keep her on track. She benefited regularly from being able to contact her coach in the evening when she was struggling with decision making and food choices. She also benefited from bi weekly check-ins on her online food and exercise diary. Sasha thrived under a reward structure that included her Dominant partners’ input and was based on her progress. These rewards allowed her to express her kink needs to help her reach her goals. Her package was negotiated for 1 month then re-evaluated. After re-evaluation she found that she no longer needed the lunch check in but still needed help in the evenings, her reduced package was signed for an additional 3 months thereafter to help her to achieve her goals.